White girl dating black guy tips
He will probably one day say/think/feel/communicate something that rubs you the wrong way, this is an opportunity, not a reason to bolt.
Hopefully, he’ll be open to having a conversation about it.
Which is to say, it looks and feels like a regular conversation. But, it could also just be a legit platonic hang out. Chad could also deny it not because he’s shy but because he wants to play coy and flirty, something like “A date? Oh no, [wink wink] just wanted to hang with you.” Which is still confusing. ”I recommend using context clues to determine if you’re dating. They don’t conquer black girls the way their ancestors conquered countries.
If that is happening with you, it could be them flirting. But, if you guys hang more than five times and nothing physical or romantic happens (hand holding, a kiss or more), then either it’s not a date or he’s a monk.
At that point, move on to the next Chad or take the direct approach and ask him directly if he likes you, at that point you have nothing to lose.
So by past I mean either, he’s never dated a black girl before and he knows nothing about us or he’s only dated black girls and is obsessed with us. If he’s a total newbie, I think it’s ok if he learns on the job.
Doesn’t mean people can’t change and grow if they want to.
I kid, I kid, they have no idea what it means, you’ll have to explain it to him. My man and I went on several “dates” before I even knew we were dating.
By the way, lacrosse and soul train are stand-ins for whatever that means for you and your would be Chad.
Lacrosse could equal skiing, windsurfing or flip-flops. As long as you’re both willing to learn and share then you both get something out of it.
Honestly, move over Serena Williams, because you’re in town now!
Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter to me why you’re reading this article. I’m black, my man is white and we’ve been together for over six years.