Rude dating men
I didn’t know him well and certainly wasn’t emotionally invested, but the interaction still rankled me.
We’d got on incredibly well and, for all the nonchalance endemic to casual hook ups, sex is an unavoidably intimate experience.
When deeply involved with this type of individual down the road after a bit of time has gone by you will wonder where that charming and engaging individual disappeared to.
That fact of the matter is that he was never there in the first place, you “fell” for an illusion or a Trojan horse of a sweet personality that encased a man whose inner qualities came from the depths of hell itself! Not when it may be appropriate because of who may be around, NO!
In general, it’s pretty easy to read relationships.
I can tell when a connection over drinks turns a colleague into a friend, or when you’re putting in the time with a family acquaintance and you just don’t jell.
But since I mentioned the women let me add a little something here on them of note……all of our Sisters who are complaining about how these arrogant self serving men carry on and keep abusing their kind hearts understand that while YOU may view it as having a kind heart HE is probably looking at that same heart as being a WEAK heart!
Well men will constantly “test” the women in their midst constantly to see how far they can go with them.
Because if you fail to put your foot down and NOT accept the disrespectful behavior on the spot it can never go back to being treated with respect because he knows that you will take it.
So while we may feel as though that chick from the ‘hood may be a little rough around the edges in the refinement area, we all need to take a page out of HER book when we witnessed her put that man in check as roughly as she did! Every time that you see a couple on the street arguing loudly, a woman crying because the way her man has treated her or even catching a major physical beat down by her husband/boyfriend, it never really started out that way.
Let me tell you, when a man that you do not know or even one to whom you may not be to acquainted with takes the liberty to push the line of decency and common sense more than what is acceptable then you must put him in his place right then and there! Do it right there regardless as to who is in your midst!
He committed the violation right there with no regard as to who was present so you fire right back at him why he was wrong to do what he did and why you do NOT find it acceptable and to please do not so stupid to EVER try you like that again!