Dating player tip
However they will not tell you they are no longer interested, so you will get messages like: Their reasons for the cool down are always ‘honourable’ and designed to keep you poised to come running when they next click their fingers.
It is simply a power trip for them and nothing more, they have invested time and energy into you and are not going to give you up that easily.
They will send you a message saying they like your profile photo and asking if you fancy meeting up for a hot night or weekend.
These people don’t trouble me at all as 99 times out of 100 they accept no for an answer.
Some people like this sort of thing from a total stranger so leave them to respond.
No, real players are skilled at their game, they are experienced hunters looking for their next victim.
Remember for them it is a game, they are an actor playing the part of James Bond or Marilyn Monroe and will shower you with romance, compliments and be everything you want and need for them to be.
Just to give you an idea of how sick and twisted these people can be, a few years ago when I first joined a dating site I immediately received a message from a lady which said “just to warn you, as you are definately his type, this guy “username” is a player on this site.
After he had finished with me recently he actually sent a critique with an overall score out of 10 and a list of ladies on the same site, along with their scores, to make comparisons with.
A simple reply saying “sorry that’s not what I am looking for” results in never hearing from them again or a polite reply saying ” thanks for the reply and I hope you find what you are looking for”.
These people I can respect, I may not wish to live their lifestyle but they are honest, polite and genuine. These are the guys and girls that send you sexually explicit, rather nauseating first messages, including their instant messaging details so you can have cyber sex or an unsolicited message saying “liked your profile, blah blah blah, I have attached a photo of myself.